3 Important Topics to Discuss with Your Partner Before Moving in Together

If you want to prepare for a happy, committed future and avoid wasting time

Ellen Nguyen
5 min readJan 6, 2024

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In a world where the unexpected becomes the norm, we often need to reevaluate our plans. This was true for my relationship. We initially planned that we would move in together only after getting engaged.

However, as the pandemic unfolded, we found ourselves facing a new reality: either living together then or not seeing each other for months without knowing when the lockdowns would end. The decision to move in together, though sooner than anticipated, was not taken lightly. It came after many careful discussions that helped us understand each other better and feel more certain about where our relationship was heading.

1. Understanding Where You Stood with Each Other.

This conversation is about gaining a clear understanding of each partner’s feelings and dating intentions. It involves open communication about the depth of your feelings, future aspirations like marriage, and plans to further integrate your lives. Knowing where you stand with each other helps in building trust and security. It ensures that both partners are on the same page before investing more in the relationship.

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Ellen Nguyen

Freelance writer & digital creator | London based | Psychology BSc. Editor of LovefulMind.com, empowering women.