7 Steps I Took to Stop Dating Avoidant Men and Start Building a Healthy Relationship
Sgnificant personal growth and mindset shifts
Before meeting my husband and undergoing my healing journey, I often found myself in relationships with avoidant partners who couldn’t commit to me. These relationships left me feeling unworthy and filled with self-doubt. However, as I began to heal, I shifted my beliefs and mindsets, which transformed my love life. Here’s how:
1. Cultivate beliefs in abundance
One of the first steps I took was believing that great men were abundant and that the man I desired existed. More importantly, I believed I deserved him as I worked on myself. This mindset shift was crucial. By embracing the idea that there were plenty of wonderful men out there, I opened my heart to new possibilities and stayed positive even when faced with setbacks. This belief in abundance kept me motivated and optimistic throughout my journey.
I often reminded myself that just because I hadn’t met the right person yet didn’t mean he wasn’t out there. I visualised the kind of relationship I wanted and held onto the belief that it was possible for me. This positive outlook attracted positive energy and opportunities into my life.
