Ellen Nguyen
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If you’re interested to know how to undo the conditioning of patriarchy when dating as a woman, I can help!

I’m helping 16 women in my course.

And I’d love to have you in my Empowered Dating community too!

It’s official! I launched my mindset and strategy course Empowered Dating today. The course is now live.



I used to have severe anxiety when it came to dating. Meeting new people, waiting for text messages, confirming plans, not knowing where the relationship is going could hurt me physically.

Dating wasn’t fun. Dating was a constant battle of fighting all my ugly thoughts about myself, all my doubts…

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I grew up learning the sentiment from the media that marriage is a trap.

I’m experiencing the opposite. Getting married makes me feel free.

I no longer have to care about male attention when I’m out.

It’s a huge weight lifted off my female existence.

Strange men still try to start conversations with me, but now I can just ignore them in…

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I have been working from home for almost 2 years. I haven’t seen a single colleague or stepped into an office for that long — well, now, I don’t even have colleagues.

Since the first lockdown in the UK last year, I moved 30 minutes away from central London. When…

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Online dating is hard. But how hard can it be and is there anything we can do about it?

Netflix has recently released a Christmas rom-com called Love Hard,
which is centered around online dating. Watch the full review!

Here are 3 lessons for modern women using online dating:

1. Get off the app as soon as you can.


You don't have to explain yourself and your standards. It's OK to want a partner who has financial security! Rich people marry each other for more money all the time. It's a scam when they tell poor/middle class people that you shouldn't want money, that's to keep them poor. Women have been shamed since forever for wanting financial security, being labelled golddiggers (this is not my personal opinion btw, this is studied in sociology.) Wanting financial security has nothing to do with gender. Men do that too. Men don't often have to marry to achieve it because hello capitalist patriarchy.

Ellen Nguyen

Dating Course https://learn.ellennguyen.com | Psychology BSc. Editor of Tingly Mind, empowering women.

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