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Does the Dating Pool Seem Smaller Now? Good news.
Becoming more selective in who we choose to date is a sign of growth and self-respect.
In this era of social media, dating advice has become a shared commodity. Platforms like TikTok, a hub of bite-sized videos, have blossomed into a rich source of wisdom about relationships.
The hashtag #datingadvice alone has amassed over 18.2 billion views, a testament to our collective desire for knowledge in the realm of love and relationships.
This digital revolution has democratised access to relationship education, leading to a generation of daters who are more self-aware and skilled at spotting red flags.
However, this wealth of information has also led to an unexpected consequence: a perceived reduction in the pool of eligible prospects.
As we become more discerning, the number of people who meet our criteria may seem to dwindle. This can lead to feelings of loneliness and a sense of loss, as the attention and options we once had seem to diminish. It’s not uncommon for individuals to feel as though they’ve become worse at dating, rather than better.
