Don’t Choose People You Can’t Love

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You think you love them, but deep down, you want them to change.

You wish they could be more attentive, or generous, or emotional, or anything else.

When you’re faced with the evidence that they’re not who you want them to be, instead of walking away, you hold on and blame it on yourself.



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Ellen Nguyen

Ellen Nguyen


Freelance writer & digital creator | London based | Psychology BSc. Editor of, empowering women.