Hi Caroline, thank you for reading and it’s a good point to call out. I’m confident about my relationship but should anything unfortunate happens, my mindset would remain the same — I would still make choices and decisions that get me to a state of stability and happiness as soon as I can while working through whatever I need to work through in my own time. I wrote a bit more about that approach here https://medium.com/tinglymind/approaches-to-moving-on-from-heartbreak-98540bcb5d6d