Hi Stijn, thanks for sharing your thoughts - it does give context to your other comment to me. Please read my response to Brett. I'm sorry that this is your interpretation of my article but, to clarify again, if you read my last paragraph, I did say that "Having troubled family relationships isn’t necessarily a red flag, but having good influence from parents — and especially from a strong mother — is the ultimate green flag to look for." I'm talking from a glass half full, not half empty.