No, disrespect, misogyny, and toxic masculinity are wrong. An act you do for someone else such as holding the door is up for them to judge whether they're happy with it or not — imposing something on someone because you think it makes you a nice guy is yes indeed wrong. Alpha and beta concepts, in my opinions, are dehumanising. I'm for a world where both men and women feel comfortable with their feminine and masculine traits — or any characteristic they have. The article talks about disrespectful behaviours - to go from that to "everything men do is wrong", you have a lot to unpack.