Thanks Ian Dobson for reading and sharing your story! I’m so sorry to hear and I totally get you. What you did was for yourself and wasn’t about your love, but we have to accept that inevitably it had an impact on your relationship and your partner rightfully reacted and made a decision for her own sake. It’s very good that you’ve reflected and learned your lesson. I do really hope that you’ll find peace and joy again no matter how your circumstance might turn out.